Way back in 2016, I was writing about the list of questions which needs to be asked to a Future Spouse before freezing our lives full of commitments and others. I was quite very busy at that time but did very good drafting at those times which had been a bible for most of my batchmates and colleagues while choosing their better halves. Most of them appreciated for my work, while a few scolded me for advising and not practising. Be is a Man or Women, the process of making a decision involves various factors. No one is the ideal match and no one is perfect including me.
Life isn’t all about interrogation or questioning. But also, matching the equivalency is important. In this post, I have compiled some of the questions, which I induced my folks about what to ask and what not to ask. Try asking some day by day, not all at once. If asked, I am not responsible for any collateral damages caused.
No one can define a set of questions for the better half and specifically, women are nurtured with bundles of questions. I am not concentrating on the complex riddle based questions which your wife may ask in your life. These questions are just the conversation initiator for any relationship, mostly romantic life locking relationships. A minute silence and salute to all those who are trying to achieve their PhD level in conversation with these questions.
It is not that everyone should answer every question but few variables like “I don’t want to answer”, “Hmmm…”, “OK”, “Pass…”, “Lolz…”, “K”, and other such should be accumulated to see the conversation levels. Also, the time frame to answer the question matters.
All the Best Folks!!!
- Are you a physically affectionate person?
- Do you consider yourself an easy-going person, or are you most comfortable with a firm plan of action?
- Do you fight fair? How do you know?
- Do you judge people who have a different waking and sleeping clock than you?
- Do you like to be freshly showered and wearing clean clothes every day, even on weekends or vacations?
- How do you celebrate when something great happens? How do you mourn when something tragic happens?
- How much sleep do you need every night?
- What do you need to do today to move toward making your dream marriage a reality?
- What drains you of your joy and passion?
- What is your favourite season of the year?
- What is your greatest limitation?
- What is your greatest strength?
- What is your idea of a fair division of labour in your household?
- What is your idea of perfect relaxation?
- What makes you feel the most alive?
- What makes you most afraid?
- What makes you most insecure? How do you handle your insecurities?
- What makes you most joyful? What do you do when you are joyful?
- What makes you most secure?
- What makes you really angry? What do you do when you’re really angry?
- What makes your heart smile in tough times?
- What most stands in the way of your creating a passionate and caring marriage?
- What replenishes your mind, body, and spirit?
- When you disagree with your partner, do you tend to fight or withdraw?
- Would you consider yourself a morning person or a night person?
