Way back in 2016, I was writing about the list of questions which needs to be asked to a Future Spouse before freezing our lives full of commitments and others. I was quite very busy at that time but did very good drafting at those times which had been a bible for most of my batchmates and colleagues while choosing their better halves. Most of them appreciated for my work, while a few scolded me for advising and not practising. Be is a Man or Women, the process of making a decision involves various factors. No one is the ideal match and no one is perfect including me.
Life isn’t all about interrogation or questioning. But also, matching the equivalency is important. In this post, I have compiled some of the questions, which I induced my folks about what to ask and what not to ask. Try asking some day by day, not all at once. If asked, I am not responsible for any collateral damages caused.
No one can define a set of questions for the better half and specifically, women are nurtured with bundles of questions. I am not concentrating on the complex riddle based questions which your wife may ask in your life. These questions are just the conversation initiator for any relationship, mostly romantic life locking relationships. A minute silence and salute to all those who are trying to achieve their PhD level in conversation with these questions.
It is not that everyone should answer every question but few variables like “I don’t want to answer”, “Hmmm…”, “OK”, “Pass…”, “Lolz…”, “K”, and other such should be accumulated to see the conversation levels. Also, the time frame to answer the question matters.
All the Best Folks!!!
- Did you have a paying job when you were in high school? Before high school?
- Do you believe in establishing a family budget?
- Do you believe in prenuptial agreements? Under what circumstances?
- Do you believe that a certain amount of money should be set aside for pleasure, even if you’re on a tight budget?
- Do you gamble?
- Do you have significant debts?
- Do you pay alimony or child support?
- Has money ever been a factor for you in the breakup of a relationship?
- Have you ever been called cheap or stingy?
- Have you ever used money as a way of controlling a relationship? Has anyone ever tried to control you with money?
- How important is it for you to make a lot of money?
- If you had unlimited resources, how would you live?
- Should individuals within a marriage have separate bank accounts in addition to joint accounts? Do you feel that bills should be divided based on a percentage of each person’s salary?
- What is your annual income?
- Who should handle the finances in your family?
