Way back in 2016, I was writing about the list of questions which needs to be asked to a Future Spouse before freezing our lives full of commitments and others. I was quite very busy at that time but did very good drafting at those times which had been a bible for most of my batchmates and colleagues while choosing their better halves. Most of them appreciated for my work, while a few scolded me for advising and not practising. Be is a Man or Women, the process of making a decision involves various factors. No one is the ideal match and no one is perfect including me.
Life isn’t all about interrogation or questioning. But also, matching the equivalency is important. In this post, I have compiled some of the questions, which I induced my folks about what to ask and what not to ask. Try asking some day by day, not all at once. If asked, I am not responsible for any collateral damages caused.
No one can define a set of questions for the better half and specifically, women are nurtured with bundles of questions. I am not concentrating on the complex riddle based questions which your wife may ask in your life. These questions are just the conversation initiator for any relationship, mostly romantic life locking relationships. A minute silence and salute to all those who are trying to achieve their PhD level in conversation with these questions.
It is not that everyone should answer every question but few variables like “I don’t want to answer”, “Hmmm…”, “OK”, “Pass…”, “Lolz…”, “K”, and other such should be accumulated to see the conversation levels. Also, the time frame to answer the question matters.
All the Best Folks!!!
- Do you enjoy viewing pornography?
- Do you feel comfortable initiating sex? If yes, why? If no, why?
- Do you prefer performing sex with lights ON or OFF?
- Do you use sex to self-medicate? If something upsets you, do you use sex to try and help you feel better?
- Has sexual dissatisfaction ever been a factor for you in the breakup of a relationship?
- Have you ever a sexual relationship with a person of the same sex?
- Have you ever been sexually abused or assaulted?
- Have you ever felt forced to have sex to keep the peace? Have you ever forced someone or been told that you forced someone to have sex with you to keep the peace?
- How frequently you use to talk with your very close friends about sex?
- How often do you need or expect sex?
- Is sexual fidelity an absolute necessity in a good marriage?
- What do you need in order to be in the mood for sex?
- What sexual activities do you enjoy the most? Are there specific sexual acts that make you uncomfortable? Be specific! This is no time to hedge.
- What was the attitude toward sex in your family? Was it talked about? Who taught you about sex?
- Where did you get to know about sex, relationship and intimacy?
