Way back in 2016, I was writing about the list of questions which needs to be asked to a Future Spouse before freezing our lives full of commitments and others. I was quite very busy at that time but did very good drafting at those times which had been a bible for most of my batchmates and colleagues while choosing their better halves. Most of them appreciated for my work, while a few scolded me for advising and not practising. Be is a Man or Women, the process of making a decision involves various factors. No one is the ideal match and no one is perfect including me.
Life isn’t all about interrogation or questioning. But also, matching the equivalency is important. In this post, I have compiled some of the questions, which I induced my folks about what to ask and what not to ask. Try asking some day by day, not all at once. If asked, I am not responsible for any collateral damages caused.
No one can define a set of questions for the better half and specifically, women are nurtured with bundles of questions. I am not concentrating on the complex riddle based questions which your wife may ask in your life. These questions are just the conversation initiator for any relationship, mostly romantic life locking relationships. A minute silence and salute to all those who are trying to achieve their PhD level in conversation with these questions.
It is not that everyone should answer every question but few variables like “I don’t want to answer”, “Hmmm…”, “OK”, “Pass…”, “Lolz…”, “K”, and other such should be accumulated to see the conversation levels. Also, the time frame to answer the question matters.
All the Best Folks!!!
- Do you believe that past relationships should be left in the past and not talked about in your current relationship?
- Do you harbour fears that the person you love might reject you or fail out of love with you?
- Do you have children from previous marriages or non-marital relationships? What is your relationship with them? How do you see your relationship with them in the future?
- Do you tend to judge current partners on past relationships?
- Have you ever been engaged to be married but didn’t go through with the wedding?
- Have you ever been married? If so, are you divorced or widowed? How do you think you handled the loss?
- Have you ever felt deeply insecure in a relationship? Were you able to name your fear?
- Have you ever had a live-in partner? Why did you choose to live together instead of marrying? What did your experience teach you about the importance of marriage and about commitment?
- Have you ever sought marriage counselling? What did the experience teach you?
- If you have a current partner, do they know of behaviours that you exhibited in your previous relationship that you’re not proud of?
- What is the longest relationship you have ever had prior to this one? Why did it end, and what lesson did you learn?
- When was the first time you felt that you were in love with another person? What happened in that relationship, and how have you come to terms with it?
