Conversation with future Spouse – 30 Areas – 300+ Questions

Conversation with Future Spouse by Kokula Krishna Hari Kunasekaran Kae Kae



Way back in 2016, I was writing about the list of questions which needs to be asked to a Future Spouse before freezing our lives full of commitments and others. I was quite very busy at that time but did very good drafting at those times which had been a bible for most of my batchmates and colleagues while choosing their better halves. Most of them appreciated for my work, while a few scolded me for advising and not practising. Be is a Man or Women, the process of making a decision involves various factors. No one is the ideal match and no one is perfect including me.

Life isn’t all about interrogation or questioning. But also, matching the equivalency is important. In this post, I have compiled some of the questions, which I induced my folks about what to ask and what not to ask. Try asking some day by day, not all at once. If asked, I am not responsible for any collateral damages caused.

No one can define a set of questions for the better half and specifically, women are nurtured with bundles of questions. I am not concentrating on the complex riddle based questions which your wife may ask in your life. These questions are just the conversation initiator for any relationship, mostly romantic life locking relationships. A minute silence and salute to all those who are trying to achieve their PhD level in conversation with these questions.

It is not that everyone should answer every question but few variables like “I don’t want to answer”, “Hmmm…”, “OK”, “Pass…”, “Lolz…”, “K”, and other such should be accumulated to see the conversation levels. Also, the time frame to answer the question matters.

All the Best Folks!!!

18. MEALTIME

  • Are you a Vegan or Vegetarian or Eggetarian or Chicketarian or Halal or consumer of all that Flies in the air and swims in the water?
  • Do you expect others in your household to adhere to certain dietary restrictions?
  • Do you follow a specific diet regimen that limits your food choices?
  • Do you like to eat most of your meals sitting at the table, or do you tend to eat on the run?
  • Do you love to cook? Do you love to eat?
  • Do you adhere to strict timings on consuming food?
  • How long do you usually eat a meal?
  • Has eating ever been a source of shame for you?
  • Have eating and food ever been a source of tension and stress in a relationship? Have they ever been a factor in the breakup of a relationship?
  • In your family is food ever used as a bribe or a proof of love?
  • When you were growing up, was it important that everybody be present for dinner?





Kokula Krishna Hari K an Indian born in Pondicherry, South India in the 1980's is a pure veteran with acquired knowledge in Business Administration, Computer Research and Entrepreneurship.

Kae Kae or KK or Kokula Krishna Hari is a strong Public Policy and Strategic Expert. All the contents and views expressed in this Blog are personal and nowhere represents his official comments or associated with his Professional Associations.

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