Way back in 2016, I was writing about the list of questions which needs to be asked to a Future Spouse before freezing our lives full of commitments and others. I was quite very busy at that time but did very good drafting at those times which had been a bible for most of my batchmates and colleagues while choosing their better halves. Most of them appreciated for my work, while a few scolded me for advising and not practising. Be is a Man or Women, the process of making a decision involves various factors. No one is the ideal match and no one is perfect including me.
Life isn’t all about interrogation or questioning. But also, matching the equivalency is important. In this post, I have compiled some of the questions, which I induced my folks about what to ask and what not to ask. Try asking some day by day, not all at once. If asked, I am not responsible for any collateral damages caused.
No one can define a set of questions for the better half and specifically, women are nurtured with bundles of questions. I am not concentrating on the complex riddle based questions which your wife may ask in your life. These questions are just the conversation initiator for any relationship, mostly romantic life locking relationships. A minute silence and salute to all those who are trying to achieve their PhD level in conversation with these questions.
It is not that everyone should answer every question but few variables like “I don’t want to answer”, “Hmmm…”, “OK”, “Pass…”, “Lolz…”, “K”, and other such should be accumulated to see the conversation levels. Also, the time frame to answer the question matters.
All the Best Folks!!!
- Are certain seasons off-limits for other activities because of football, baseball, basketball, or other sports?
- Are you usually the “life of the party,” or do you dislike being singled out for attention?
- Do you enjoy activities that might make your partner uncomfortable, such as hanging out in bars drinking, going to strip clubs, or gambling?
- Do you enjoy entertaining, or do you worry that you’ll do something wrong or people won’t have a good time?
- Do you enjoy spectator sports?
- Do you have a hobby that’s important to you?
- Do you look forward to at least one night out every week, or do you prefer to enjoy yourself at home?
- Do you socialize primarily with people from work, or with people from the same ethnic/racial/religious/ socioeconomic background? Or do you socialize with a diverse mix of people?
- Does your work involve attending social functions? If so, are these occasions a burden or a pleasure? Do you expect your spouse to be present, or do you prefer that your spouse not be present?
- Have differences about socializing ever been a factor for you in the breakup of a relationship?
- Have leisure time issues ever been a factor in the breakup of a relationship?
- Have you or a partner ever had an argument caused by one or the other’s behaviour at a social function?
- How much money do you regularly spend on leisure activities?
- Is it important for you to attend social events regularly, or does the prospect rarely appeal to you?
- What activities do you enjoy that don’t involve your partner? How important is it to you that you and your partner enjoy the same leisure activities?
- What is your idea of a fun day?
