Way back in 2016, I was writing about the list of questions which needs to be asked to a Future Spouse before freezing our lives full of commitments and others. I was quite very busy at that time but did very good drafting at those times which had been a bible for most of my batchmates and colleagues while choosing their better halves. Most of them appreciated for my work, while a few scolded me for advising and not practising. Be is a Man or Women, the process of making a decision involves various factors. No one is the ideal match and no one is perfect including me.
Life isn’t all about interrogation or questioning. But also, matching the equivalency is important. In this post, I have compiled some of the questions, which I induced my folks about what to ask and what not to ask. Try asking some day by day, not all at once. If asked, I am not responsible for any collateral damages caused.
No one can define a set of questions for the better half and specifically, women are nurtured with bundles of questions. I am not concentrating on the complex riddle based questions which your wife may ask in your life. These questions are just the conversation initiator for any relationship, mostly romantic life locking relationships. A minute silence and salute to all those who are trying to achieve their PhD level in conversation with these questions.
It is not that everyone should answer every question but few variables like “I don’t want to answer”, “Hmmm…”, “OK”, “Pass…”, “Lolz…”, “K”, and other such should be accumulated to see the conversation levels. Also, the time frame to answer the question matters.
All the Best Folks!!!
- Are there genetic diseases in your family or a history of cancer, heart disease, or chronic illness?
- Do you believe it is a sacred responsibility to take care of yourself?
- Do you believe that taking care of your physical and mental health is a part of honouring your marriage vows?
- Do you belong to a gym? If so, how much time do you spend at the gym every week?
- Do you consider yourself an addictive personality, and have you ever suffered from an addiction?
- Have you ever been told you have an addiction problem, even though you might disagree?
- Do you drink? If yes, how much alcohol do you drink every week?
- Do you have a medical problem that impacts your ability to have a satisfying sex life (for example, erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, vaginal dryness, drug/alcohol addiction, etc)?
- Do you have health insurance? Dental insurance?
- Do you play sports or take exercise classes?
- Do you see a therapist?
- Do you smoke, or have you ever smoked?
- Do you take medication?
- Do you use recreational drugs?
- Have any of these health problems ever been a factor for you in the breakup of a relationship?
- Have you ever been in a physically or emotionally abusive relationship?
- Have you ever been in a serious accident?
- Have you ever been treated for a mental disorder?
- Have you ever had a serious illness? Have you ever had surgery?
- Have you ever had a sexually transmitted disease?
- Have you ever suffered from an eating disorder?
- How would you describe the current state of your health?
