Conversation with future Spouse – 30 Areas – 300+ Questions

Conversation with Future Spouse by Kokula Krishna Hari Kunasekaran Kae Kae



Way back in 2016, I was writing about the list of questions which needs to be asked to a Future Spouse before freezing our lives full of commitments and others. I was quite very busy at that time but did very good drafting at those times which had been a bible for most of my batchmates and colleagues while choosing their better halves. Most of them appreciated for my work, while a few scolded me for advising and not practising. Be is a Man or Women, the process of making a decision involves various factors. No one is the ideal match and no one is perfect including me.

Life isn’t all about interrogation or questioning. But also, matching the equivalency is important. In this post, I have compiled some of the questions, which I induced my folks about what to ask and what not to ask. Try asking some day by day, not all at once. If asked, I am not responsible for any collateral damages caused.

No one can define a set of questions for the better half and specifically, women are nurtured with bundles of questions. I am not concentrating on the complex riddle based questions which your wife may ask in your life. These questions are just the conversation initiator for any relationship, mostly romantic life locking relationships. A minute silence and salute to all those who are trying to achieve their PhD level in conversation with these questions.

It is not that everyone should answer every question but few variables like “I don’t want to answer”, “Hmmm…”, “OK”, “Pass…”, “Lolz…”, “K”, and other such should be accumulated to see the conversation levels. Also, the time frame to answer the question matters.

All the Best Folks!!!

10. FRIENDS

  • Are your friendships as Important to you as your life partner is?
  • Do you have a best friend?
  • Do you have a difficult time setting limits with friends?
  • Do you see a close friend or friends at least once a week?
  • Do you speak to any of your friends on the phone every day?
  • Has a partner ever been responsible for breaking up a friendship?
  • Have friends ever been a factor for you in the breakup of a relationship?
  • Have you ever had a breakup with your Friend? How did you feel and handle it?
  • How do you define a Close Friend, Best Friend and a Friend?
  • How usual do you fight with your friends? How quick are you in patching up with?
  • If your friends need you, are you there for them?
  • Is it important that you and your partner have friends in common?
  • Is it important to you for your partner to accept and like your friends?





Kokula Krishna Hari K an Indian born in Pondicherry, South India in the 1980's is a pure veteran with acquired knowledge in Business Administration, Computer Research and Entrepreneurship.

Kae Kae or KK or Kokula Krishna Hari is a strong Public Policy and Strategic Expert. All the contents and views expressed in this Blog are personal and nowhere represents his official comments or associated with his Professional Associations.

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